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I (33F) spent the last year in an FWB situation where I had feelings and hoped he’d change his stance on our relationship but (surprise! So I am back on the apps getting myself back out there.
I have a bad habit of putting all my eggs in one basket that really needs to stop and told myself I just needed to start going on lots of dates with many people basically casting a wide net. I went on a few dates with one guy that I ultimately wasn’t feeling and set up a first date with another just before I broke things off with guy #1.
It Speeds up the Process of Meeting the Right Person Some people go on a first date and, wow, the magic and the sparks are there immediately.
But for others, they have to date someone many times, maybe even over weeks or months, to know whether there’s chemistry in the air—and they may need to date several people before they finally feel that “click.” If you immediately exclude all other guys or gals from the moment you have your first lunch date with someone until his or her annoying laugh causes you to bolt two months later, you may have to go through several mini-relationships in a row before you’re done. Going on dates with a few different good candidates around the same time helps you find out fast who’s wrong, without forcing you to wait and wait and wait to find out who’s right.
If there is a second date, I just go on the second date...
Is there one person whose jokes crack you up more than all the others?
And if you’re looking for commitment and eventually marriage, you probably want to avoid “playing the field” because it seems to trivialize the process of finding something so important in your life.
However, compare the dating experience to looking for a job. Yet revising your résumé, applying at lots of places, and going on multiple interviews helps you to be less nervous each time you’re in a recruiter’s office and teaches you how to sell yourself to potential employers.
Also I'm vetting too, so I really try to only go on dates if I get some decent vibes from the guy.
If it doesnt work out I just continue to move on from day one.