Dating women with mental issues
By sharing your health history," they add, "you share insight into not just your challenges but also your strengths.""Serious," though, is relative.If you feel you can't enter into a sexual relationship with somebody, introduce them to your friends, or take them past any relationship "mark" that hits before three months without telling them about your disorder, that's a very valid feeling. The notions of "comfortable" and "safe" are discussed a lot when it comes to mental illness disclosure in intimate relationships; that's what lies behind the three-month mark idea, but it could also be more subtle than a timeline allows.There are several different challenges when it comes to dating while mentally ill. And remember that it's normal to feel a bit of trepidation; the mental health discrimination organization Time To Change has found that a whopping 75 percent of people with mental disorders felt scared to tell new partners about it. Myths about mental disorders, romantic and otherwise, abound; people who introduce the fact of their diagnosis fear rejection by somebody cute, or being pegged as "crazy" and "undateable".
feel closer to the person after they learn of their mental illness ...
If she is just slow, autistic or has some neurological syndrome (like sleeping beauty syndrome) there is little to no problem.
I also do not want to fall in love with someone which is destined to die early. But if it is curable and she is not trying anything to treat it or help herself it can be another dealbreaker.
But this was the high stress event that did the trick. I'm not the perv who felt you up when you were 7. I didn't abandon you, so don't get in my face and scream your head off, call me the most vile names your warped brain can come up with then act shocked or play the victim when I don't crawl back.
Would I knowingly put myself in such emotional danger again? I have baggage, I have issues, but I do NOT try to make the rest of the world pay for it.