Pros and cons of dating single mothers
As a result, they tend to be more open to different types of women.
In other words, they may be more compromising on a woman’s perceived level of attractiveness, age, weight and other factors which may have played a more important (and superficial! This does not mean they are settling, but rather, focusing on deeper characteristics in a woman, such as the ability to be a good stepmother to his child.
You engage him in casual conversation and find that not only is he attractive to you, he is mentally stimulating as well. Before the conversation ends, he asks for your name and number so the two of you can continue talking over the phone. So what’s a woman to do when she meets a single dad?
Just as soon as you thought your prayers have finally been answered, he tells you he’ll call you once he drops off the kids… Well, for starters, it’s certainly not the end of the world.
Just put yourself in her shoes and try to understand where she is coming from.
She thought this man would be her soulmate and things did not work out that way.
The responsibility of having to raise kids really opens him up to other wonderful traits such as loyalty, compassion and selflessness. He Can Be Less Of A “Disappearing Act”: When a boy becomes a man, he puts away childish things.
The more generous he is with his kids, the less money he’ll have to spend on you. Be prepared to pay for a few dates here and there, or be creative with low cost activities that the two of you can enjoy together, like hiking, picnics and free concerts. You’ll Be Less Of A Priority To Him: When you’re in a relationship with a man with kids, you’re really in a relationship with his kids, his kids’ mother, his own mother…
Remember, his family was there before you came into his life.
As women, we can become territorial when it comes to our men.
Wherever there’s a break-up, there’s a scorned woman.